Irate Mom Draws Down on Son’s Barber

Maybe this mom has warrant for being irate…but firearms are only a tool of last resort! Doing stuff like this can land you in prison for a long time.

 

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What does this video teach us about defending ourselves with a firearm?

 

  1. You must accept that danger exists and that it can happen to you. This is the foundational core of spiritual fitness and the first step in taking proactive steps to protect yourself and your loved ones. If you live in a fantasyland that nothing bad can happen because nothing bad has happened in the past, you’re setting yourself up for a terrible letdown.

 

  1. Perhaps the biggest benefit of situational awareness is that it buys you time and space to respond to a threat, and time and space buy you options when considering how to protect yourself and your loved ones from a threat. Time and space give you the chance to escape and evade, or time and space to get your force multiplier in the fight, and time and space to better your defensive position and give you a better chance to be victorious.

 

  1. The eyes may be the windows to the soul, but the hands are the windows to the intent of a person. If you’re in a potential conflict, ALWAYS pay attention to what the aggressor is doing with their hands. They might have a force multiplier in their hand, or they might be hiding their hand so that you can’t see what is in it or using their hand to conceal something. If their hands are empty, there is a difference between someone with fists and someone whose hands are open and relaxed. As a self-defender your situational awareness must include seeing the hands of any potential threat in your vicinity, so watch the hands!

 

  1. One of the pillars of lawful, moral self-defense is “reasonableness.” (get a nutshell here: http://get-asp.com/wbbp or the whole concept here: http://get-asp.com/1fqe ) In every defensive incident we ask whether the actions of the defender were reasonable from an objective standpoint. Would an objective, reasonable person do what you did in the moment? A good test of whether your actions are reasonable is whether you did them to stop the threat or to punish someone (Charles Humes calls it “The Punisher Test”: https://get-asp.com/nybt it’s a good comparison) The reasonableness standard can feel vague, but think of it this way: would a sane, sober, good, moral person do what you did in the moment? Would Ned Flanders from “The Simpsons” do what you did?

 

  1. In a legal sense, the definition of “assault” is “intentionally putting another person in reasonable apprehension of an imminent harmful or offensive contact.” In some states the definition includes the actual causing of injury as well, but in others that’s a separate crime of battery. Therefore, if someone flashes a force multiplier like a firearm, with the intent of making someone believe you imminently intent to do them harm with that force multiplier, they are guilty of the crime of assault. There are some state statutes that provide immunity to that charge if the display of a firearm is defensive in nature as well. As always, check your state laws!

 

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(music in the outro courtesy of Bensound at http://www.bensound.com)

 

 

 

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